your preferences, legal aspects of adoption (which vary by state), and the cooperation of the birthfather. Many women opt for their baby to be placed directly with the adoptive family from the hospital, but you may choose temporary care while considering adoption.
How much will my child know about me?
This depends on the type of adoption you choose – open, semi-open, or confidential. Regardless, agencies typically encourage you to provide your complete medical and social history for your child, which is a requirement in some states.
Does the birthfather have any rights?
Both you and the birthfather have rights. If there is disagreement about adoption or you are no longer in a relationship with him, the agency will work with the birthfather and/or the courts to determine if his rights can be terminated.
Can my child find me if they want to search someday?
State laws dictate when your child may access information in the adoption file.
In Conclusion
Adoption is a profound and life-changing decision, both for you and your child. It’s a journey of love, courage, and sometimes, sacrifice. At Positive Choices, we understand the complexities and emotions involved in this choice. We are here to support you with compassion, respect, and confidentiality, every step of the way.
Remember, you are not alone in this journey. Our team is dedicated to providing you with all the information and assistance you need to make the best decision for your and your baby’s future. We connect you with resources, counseling, and agencies that align with your wishes and values.
Choosing adoption can be an act of immense love and bravery. It can provide your child with a life full of opportunities and a loving family, while also respecting your life circumstances and plans. Whatever decision you make, know that it is yours to make, and we are here to support you in making an informed and empowered choice.
For more information, to discuss your options, or to get connected with resources, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us. Your story matters, and we are here to listen and help.